Tuesday, 28 February 2012

Why I Want to Homestead

I started this 'wanting to homestead' when I was about 7-8 years old except I didn't call it that and as usual, I blame Laura Ingalls for writing those addictive books.  I called it 'I want to live like Laura did' or 'I want to live back when Laura did because I was born in the wrong century', to 'I want to go back in time and be Laura's friend' to, finally 'forget all that, I just want to BE Laura.'   But I really can't 'blame' Laura as I think that 'it' was already in me before that.  We used to go for Sunday afternoon drives through the country and the minute our car left the city, I immediately relaxed, I felt excited, alive, felt such a longing to remain in the country and never go home - I felt at home. 

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Back in the city, I admired the old red brick buildings while walking or taking the bus to school and work.  I could imagine the people being excited when these buildings were first built and the excitement of moving-in day.

 Old churches with first horses lined up outside then later, the brand new, gleaming Model T Ford cars, while beautiful old-time hymns poured from within.  I imagined the school children walking to school on bright, sunny days along dusty roads, chatting with wonderful friends along the way, being welcomed into the bright, stove-warmed (on a bright, sunny day?!) classroom by a cheery teacher who smiled the whole time while ringing the Welcome to School bell.  They would hang their coats in the cloakroom, then sit quietly and obediently in their seats while waiting for their sweet and darling teacher to take her place at the front.  Somehow, their lips never get sore from constant smiling and their hearts just could not contain all of their joy!

Oh brother!  Gimme a break, I was only 7 or 8 years old and knew nothing of the reality of those days.  Some seniors recall their childhoods as exactly that idyllic but many more do not.  Politics was just as alive and well in the church of yesteryear as it is now and brand new cars would only have served to highlight the discrepancy between the haves and the have nots even more.  Many children went to school dirty, hungry and cold.  They were the subject of ridicule and bullying on the walk to school, while at school and on the way home - and the bullying did not only come from the students.  Teachers could be pretty nasty and had free reign with their 'weapons of mass destruction' - the yardstick, the wooden pointer and the belt.  These poor kids often got it again at home that night for getting in trouble at school.  And I haven't mentioned all the physical labour, both before school and after. 

Kids threshing.  http://www.oneroomschoolhouse.edublogs.org/

Even after learning all of that, my yearning for a taste of that lifestyle did not disappear but it certainly did die down.  After all, it was the 70's and we were incredibly modern.  Stop laughing!  We were so!  It doesn't matter how modern we actually were, what mattered is how modern everyone thought they were.  They was so much extra money flying around that the government was building government buildings, hospitals and new schools with innovative ideas.  Still usable buildings were left empty or destroyed.  New buildings were built without the old ones being sold first.  Money was just not an object.  

For grade 6, we started at a brand new school that was not even finished on opening day.  For opening ceremonies that first day, we sat in front of an unfinished stage.  We had a room just for science, one just for art, one just for music with all of the musical instruments for a 60-member band - clarinets, trombones, french horns, flutes, tubas, trumpets and extras of each.  We had a full-time French teacher (Darn!  Although I must say that Madame Smith was pretty nice.)  Books and pencils were bought for us, unlike my kids' schools.  A huge locker room held a locker for each student, pretty much unheard of at that time.  We had a large home economics room with 2 fully-equipped kitchens and about 10 sewing machines that we actually used.  We did a bit of written work but mostly we sewed and cooked and baked.  I learned how nummy fudgy brownies could be as opposed to my mom's cake brownies.  I also learned that there is very little that can be done to make powdered milk taste better, not strawberry syrup, not even chocolate syrup.  (My daughters took home ec in school and pretty much never did any cooking or sewing, just all paperwork.)  There was also a large Industrial Arts room with a band saw, a lathe, soldering equipment amongst other equipment where I learned to make a plastic keychain, a small metal box for holding pens, etc and  large wooden salt and pepper shakers made on the lathe.  2 very large classrooms were set aside for handicapped children as well and they had their own entrance and elevator.  The gymnasium divided into a boy's gym and a girl's gym by a folding door.  It was the width of the gym and folded up into the wall like an accordion with the turn of a key.  Both sides became the lunch room with the tables and benches folding up into wall and out of the way during gym.  The best part of this school was that, during my last year there, grade 8, the school organized the equivalent of a year-end field trip every single month, and it was all free.  Trips to places like Dundern Castle in Hamilton, Niagara Falls, Casa Loma (Toronto), The Hockey Hall of Fame (Toronto), African Lion Safari (near Cambridge), skiing trips, etc. and we could choose any that we wanted.  Unbelievably wonderful and judging by my kids' experiences at different schools, equally unbelievably impossible today.  They seemed to spend a lot of time back then, trying to figure out new ways, more modern ways to spend all of the money, they seemed to just want to get rid of all that money. 

Although it may seem that I'm telling you this to brag, of course I'm not.  I think everyone should have had these opportunities and today's kids should, too.   I've heard of places having school 4 days a week instead of 5, buildings going unrepaired, libraries that do not receive books, art and science barely exist, forget music, home ec and industrial arts.  Class field trips often no longer take place, holiday parties are not done as they might offend immigrants or someone might choke.  There's now a new idea on the go from some parents to stop all pizza and hot dog sales at school during lunch time.  I'm not sure of the why, just of the stupidity of it all. 

I believe completely that the money is still there but the children, seniors, handicapped, preemies, homeless, etc. of this modern world are not going to get any of it.  The weakest, the poorest, the neediest will not get their share.  Why do I think that the money is still there?  Because we never hear of the 'top dogs' going hungry, their children are still attending private school, they still live in their luxury homes, still drive their luxury vehicles, still travel around the world whenever and wherever they feel inspired to go in their own jets ... and then to top it all off, they get a raise!  The things that happen when the inmates run the asylum!!


Maybe we've been pampered for far too long and it's time to stand on our own and do things for ourselves and each other.  No more expecting much from the government, no matter who's running it - after all, an inmate is an inmate is an inmate.  What does it really matter which one's in charge?  With all of the talk of poisons in the air, on the land, in the water, in our food, etc., it would be nice to get away from as much of that as possible.  Independence breeds strength (both physical and mental),  tolerance (you have to learn to tolerate what you cannot control such as the weather), honesty (you cannot lie about whether or not you fed the animals, watered, weeded or planted the garden because the evidence will show itself soon enough), understanding and compatibility (you need these 2 things unless you want to homestead alone, completely alone, forever), humility (again connected to things that you cannot control such as the weather, market prices, etc.), patience (gardens and animals both take forever to grow and therefore, it'll take forever for you to see any returns compared to popping into the grocery store and buying whatever you want off the shelves).  I'm sure that I do not have an over abundance of these qualities, having grown up spoiled and it would certainly do me good to learn them. 
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Wednesday, 22 February 2012

Second Farmhouse - Bats and Renos

Hubby had hoped to leave renovating this house for some time in the future - the distant future, like maybe NEVER!  There was too much work in the barn and the fields to be spending time on the house.  The fields and the barns are where the money is made so it would be like a store owner or manufacturing plant owner saying that he would put off opening the store for a year or getting the plant up and running a year from now while he instead gets his house fixed up.  He would still be needing to make rent or mortgage payments, not have any income and any and all investors would be slightly pissed.  For generations, it seems that ALL of the money went to the farming aspect and none to the house.  Just look at the farmouses of the past century - the wives considered it a big deal to FINALLY get a washroom!

The upstairs bathroom and my toddler son's bedroom were definite must-do's but unfortunately, we had to add a third room.  Something flew past my head one night and scared the crap out of me and my screaming scared the crap out of the poor kids (ages 8 and down).  Hubby was in the barn and there was no way that I was doing anything to get in the way of that bat.  That bat was free to fly anywhere he (she) wanted.  Far be it from me to interfere!  Until hubby got in from the barn, that is -- and then he was even more scared the rest of us!  But being the man of the house and all that - ah forget that.  If he could have left that bat hanging somewhere, he would have but he didn't want to get woken up in the night from one of the kids screaming (or me!) and he didn't want to find it in our room in the night so he got brave and went after it. 

Like lots of people, he'd heard that a badminton racquet would work well.  Wrong!  After trying that method for a while, he gave up and grabbed a towel, swung it and brought the bat down quite easily.  Flushed him down the toilet and that was that -- so we thought.  Over the next few weeks, we got 10 bats and our housecat got 1.  The kids and I were hiding down behind the kitchen peninsula while yet another bat flew back and forth overhead and hubby was, of course, in the barn again.  We were down there praying that bats like to fly high only and never along the ground.  There was no use trying to hide in another room because bats can squeeze into any tiny space and besides, we wanted to know where the bat was when hubby came in because they can be hard to find if they land.   We would peek around the corner of the kitchen cupboards occasionally to keep an eye on his flying progress.  We found him on the floor being eaten by the cat (one good reason to run right out and adopt a cat from a shelter, as if eating all the mice in your house wasn't already a good enough reason!).  There's no way that the cat jumped into the air and caught him so we figured that the bat must have flown into the ceiling fan in the dining room and been knocked to the floor.  I still give full credit to the cat because if he hadn't been there, I would have had to do the dirty work and no thanks! 

I don't believe the old story that bats try to avoid people.  I'm quite convinced that 'our' bats loved to dive-bomb us outside, expecially if we were on the trampoline.  The kids didn't pay much notice to the bats outside but the first time that I got brave enough to jump on the trampoline near dark was also my last and no one can convince me that they were not after me!  Anyway, after 5 or 6 bats, we got to be old hats at bats flying around, we had stopped screaming every time we saw one and we learned to walk around with our heads held high (meaning we were looking up!) while scanning the ceiling and top halves of every wall.  I still get squeamish to this day however, if I hear anything resembling the sound that they make.  If you make 'fish lips' with your lips then make a smacking sound or put your lips and your hand and make a slight sucking sound (I know, I know - that sounds weird!), that's how bats sounded to me.  And I still hate them. 

It took us a while to trace their entrance hole into the house.  We knew by then that there were plenty of them living up in the attic but there were so many places in this old house where the lath and plaster was broken or missing that it was impossible to tell just where they were coming in.  The mystery was solved when hubby saw one actually come through one of many holes in the bedroom adjacent to the upstairs bathroom.  This entire wall had been covered by nice enough looking floor-to-ceiling and wall-to-wall cupboards and it was only when this bat came out from behind these cupboards that we found the holes (and the beautiful orange and green 60's wallpaper).  So this room also had to be redone at the same time as the other two so in the end, I guess I have to say thank goodness for the bats because now we were renovating a third room!

Sorry, no photos this time.  I figured that you could find your own repulsive photos of bats if you wish.  I just don't have the desire to look at them right now.  They still have that 'ew' factor for me!  I might have stopped screaming every time one flew by but...

Friday, 3 February 2012

Farm Memories

Remembering the farms of family friends takes me back to a different time.  A time with little TV and NO internet.  The only TV came from the old TV antenna and gave you only a few channels, usually 1 clear one along with a few fuzzy ones unless you had the 'rabbit ears' and then you might get 1 extra channel.  For the farm kids I knew, a few fuzzy channels wasn't enough to make them want to stay inside.
What's left of our old TV antenna tower being used to help support the stove pipe and the white internet dish(?) and also works well as a ladder to the roof.  Another era has left us. 

Help a bit in the garden, do a bit of yard work, help in the kitchen and the field...yeah, these kids had to help but there was plenty of time left over for fun.  I didn't know anyone with the proverbial 'swimming hole' but one friend lived right beside the river and I swear I spent the best 4 hours of my life there.  It was summer and we waded through the creek from their house down to the river with our rubber boots on.  The river was only about 1' deep so we followed it for a few hours.  Managed to get wet and cooled down along the way and dry off again before we were done (it was hot!).  Eventually the river dried up completely which was surprising as it could often be a raging torrent but it was late summer in a hot, dry year and just perfect for us.  We walked along the dry riverbed a while further then decided to head for home but we took a different route back.  We headed through the bush (woods), through sunny field after stunningly-beautiful field, stopping to chat with the cows grazing and finally, up my friend's back 'amazing laneway' that wound its way through their fields and back to the old farmhouse.  If there was a cloud in the sky that day, I didn't notice it as it certainly did not darken the beautiful, sunny day.

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Dry riverbed similar to 'ours'.  http://www.bigskyfishing.com/

The laneway was amazing because it was such an easy place to walk, through the tractor ruts, as opposed to a field.  It also held 'nature's treats' along its fences.  The obvious would be raspberries, wild and normal grapes amongst other berries but this was also my introduction to gooseberries.  Nowadays, I cannot imagine eating pie with 'green things' in it but my friends' mom made gooseberry pie and gooseberry jam (or was it jelly?), I ate both with great gusto, especially since I had helped her pick the gooseberries along the 'amazing laneway' and it was another of my best afternoons - ever!
 Old farm laneway.  http://www.geolocation.ws/
The old farm laneways that have remained unmannicured are the best as their old berry bushes and vines remain intact and can continue to produce for decades.
Gooseberries.  http://www.venturacottage.com/
Gooseberry pie.  http://www.forums.homestead.org/

Saturday, 28 January 2012

Our Second Farmhouse - Previous Owners

Our 2nd farmhouse had been in the same family since the land was first bought from the crown.  The farmhouse was well over 100 years old and had been the replacement house for the original house and that first house would have been old before it was torn down.  The previous owner, F. M., had bought the whole place from his uncles when he was young.  He had to walk 44 miles (70 kilometers) to register it so that squatters could not take over.  I don't quite understand why his uncles didn't have to do this but it must have something to do with the Homestead Act and possibly the resale of the farm, not sure.  That must have been quite the walk with not much along the way except for bush, a few farms and maybe 1 very small town. 

When he was in his 60's, he wanted to retire but none of his 4 kids wanted the farm - typical story, unfortunately.  They had all 'fled' to the city as soon as they could.  One was a lawyer, one a doctor and one was allergic to everything so there was no way any were coming back.  The youngest daughter, C., had left for Vancouver years before and had wanted nothing to do with farms.  F.M. and his wife went to visit C. and mentioned that they were going to sell the farm.  Suddenly C. says, "Mom and Dad, I'm coming home to run the farm."  They were thrilled, she did just that for 20 years and was successful but my first thought would have been more like "After all the years of hating the farm, staying as far away from it as you can get - literally the other side of the country - are you sure you're really committed to it?" 

During her 20 years there, she married a local 'big' farmer, had 3 kids, ran a successful laying hen farm for 5,000 birds, divorced same said farmer, sold the farm to the first non-family member to ever own the place and used her share of the money to open a sewing store in town, again successfully and it's still going strong.

The new owner whom I'll call T.G. moved in with his wife and his brother moved in upstairs.   They were welcomed by the neighbours who thought that this couple had every intention of living there forever but instead they just wanted the timber.  They earned over $100,000.00 worth of wood in 1 year.  I don't quite understand this either, but according to the law, if you officially own the property and live in the house for 365 days, you pay way less taxes as it's your own wood that you're selling.  The neighbours knew nothing about this and when they finally figured it out, they were furious.  As one local put it, "T.G. raped the bush", which essentially, I guess he did.  7 years later, when we had someone in to assess the bush, he found 1 tree ready and 1 tree almost ready.  The rest of the entire bush was at least 5 years or more away.   He definitely was within his rights to sell his own wood and all of it too but people were bothered by the sneakiness and underhandessness of it all.  T.G. also did not bother to cut up the tops for firewood (not enough money, too much work?) and instead, just left it all to rot.  He didn't really clearcut but didn't mind running over any and all smaller trees to get to the tree he wanted.  He left paths through the bush 2 bulldozer-widths wide and didn't care about tearing up good farm fields with his 'dozer.  He also left dozens of piles of brush at least 20' high all over the fields.  As part of the deal, he was supposed to have those gone, completely gone, not piled all over the place.  At the urging of his lawyer, he did finally push all the piles off the fields and to the edge of the bush/fields, thereby tearing up more of the fields with his bulldozer.
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We purchased the farm from T.G. as of April 15 but agreed that he could stay there rent-free until June 1 if need be.  We had no idea that he had kept his other house the whole time and did not need the extra time to buy himself another place to live as he had led us to believe.  We knocked on the door one day to ask them something but got no answer so we decided to peek in the windows (I know!  You're not supposed to do that but we figured that since we did officially own it...) to try to get a better picture of the layout and where to put the furniture.  With all of the additions, we just could not remember.  Hubby heard a hum through the open window and instantly became furious as he was pretty sure that it was the furnace running.  It was May, over 90 degrees F. and it became obvious when we entered the house that no one was living there - there was definitely no reason for any more heat.  The problem with this was that they had agreed in the deal to leave the oil tank full.  This is now mandatory but at that time, it had to be in the agreement.  It was obvious at this point that they had moved out and were trying to empty the oil tank.  Thank goodness we found out when the oil tank was still half full and thank goodness the wife was actually nothing like him.  She gave us a cheque for the right amount and it actually did not bounce.

The worst he did though, was to his wife.  He went out, got himself a girlfriend and invited her to move in with him - with his wife still in the house and at first not knowing anything about it.  The worst of  all was that the wife also had cancer.  It was only a short time later that I heard that she had died.   I guess her jerk of a hubby was just making sure that he had another woman waiting in the wings.  About a year later, he was dead, too.  I guess what goes around comes around!

Because of this guy, the neighbours became sour on new neighbours and this was the atmosphere that we moved into.  We were nothing like him though, and we were there for 11 years.

One good thing that came from clearing out the bush was - blackberries.  I didn't know anything about blackberries but one day shortly after we moved in, there was a knock on the door from an older local farmer asking if he and his friend could go back in the bush and pick the blackberries.  He explained that after a lot of trees have been cut down, blackberries will show up for a few years.  He made enough Blackberry wine each year for the next 3 years to last his family for the year and always brought us a bottle.  I knew that blueberries could grow in an area that had been affected by forest fire but I didn't know about blackberries.  The things you learn!

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Saturday, 21 January 2012

More of Our Second Farmhouse

This house was a brute to heat.  The original part of the house was a square, 2-story log house that was covered on the outside with white siding and on the inside with the icky, old lathe. 
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One day, just after moving in, my one-year-old son reached through his crib, pulled off some flowered wallpaper (it had been a teen-aged girl's room!) and exposed the ever-lovely lath.  Behind the lath were the 12" X 12" logs that were kept about 4-5" apart by stones and mudding (mortar, chinking).  This mudding was long gone, presumably eaten by the large numbers of mice that we were constantly contending with.  Through the empty space blew the whole great outdoors, in spite of the siding.  Much to hubby's dismay, it became obvious that we had to start the renovating a lot sooner than hoped for, as this room was certainly not the worst one.

When we were first looking at the farm, we could see that the buildings were not in great shape but we were not too worried.  We were young(er), figured we could handle it and besides, with 5 young kids, ages 1 year  to 8 years old and our other farm now sold, we needed a place, like, yesterday.  We couldn't really afford any more time to look around.  I was just happy that there was an upstairs bathroom!  Yeah, excited!  I can't help but laugh when I watch all the renovating and relocating shows and everyone wants their own bathroom.  "Yes, I like this house but where's the 4th or 5th bathroom?  We'll just have to keep looking."  Sigh!!  I'm not laughing at the people.  Hey, I'd like my own washroom, too!  I'm laughing at the idea of any of these people having to live in any of our old houses.  You could easily run a series of "Survivor" in any old, not-fixed-up farmhouse and see how many contestants are still standing at the end of a week, let alone 11 years.

Well, the upstairs bathroom was there but was not a joy to use.  The bathroom was over the back stairs and a wooden box had been built over the headway space in the bathroom.  This space could have been better utilized as shelves but instead could not be used as anything except a seat.  Have a seat while someone else finishes using the toilet, perhaps?  I was excited to move in anyway and had one day only to clean without the kids so I went at the old cast-iron tub to clean it and immediately destroyed the cloth.  The finish on the tub was long gone, very rusty and impossible to clean.
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This tub looks almost as bad as our tub except this one's for sale for $60.00.  If only we'd had internet back then - we might have known how rich we were.  Had no idea that we could possibly sell that old thing and maybe some other things, as well -  starting with the old sink as it was in the same condition.

There was a hole in the floor in front of the toilet that I was kind of afraid of.  The toilet was built up at least 2 inches and this worried me, too.  Some toilets are built up higher in order to help the elderly and handicapped and I chose to believe that this was the reason every time one of us had to use it.  But the holey floor in front...  It turns out that raising the toilet was actually an attempt to keep the toilet on the second floor!
http://www.accessibleconstruction.com/

The stink pipe was in the corner behind the toilet, completely exposed.  A bath towel had been neatly folded and stuffed in between the pipe and the wall.  We couldn't imagine what it could be holding up or keeping in but it was a strange thing for someone to do without a reason.  It was a strange enough thing to do WITH a reason!  We were quite sure that if we pulled it out, the stink pipe would fall down, fall through, fall over, fall somewhere so we left it alone until it was time to reno.  Later during renos, we learned that the stink pipe was fine and it's still in use today.  I guess they ran out of storage room for their towels?!  Because of all of these things, plus the fact that there was no insulation, we were convinced that this room needed to be done at the same time as our son's room - both way before we were ready to tackle them.
Sidenote*
This is the stink pipe in our 3rd farmhouse.  The photo was taken a few minutes ago and the reno was started right after New Year's, 2012.  I know, more renos, more lath, more dust.  Sigh!  But that's another story for another day! 

Monday, 9 January 2012

1940 Applalachian Pioneer's Mountain Life And Their Children

I've watched this video quite a number of times and do not get tired of it.  I can't believe that we are lucky enough to have real footage like this to view, review, get ideas from, etc.

I believe I recognize that floor at 1:43.  It looks exactly like the old floor in the back kitchen of our first farmhouse and I used to sweep the dirt down through the floorboards, just like at 1:51.

I've never seen a steel barrel used inside the house for heat, only outside for burning garbage.  The insurance companies would have a fit nowadays if they saw a steel barrel used for heat.  They don't even want them used outside.  Farmers have used them for decades to burn their garbage.  After watching quite a few episodes of the show "Trashopolis", I've come to the conclusion that governments all over the world have no single, simple idea on how to dispose of garbage properly and cleanly and therefore, the farmers have likely been doing a better job.  At any rate, the price of a new wood stove would have been out of the reach of the average 1940 family if they also had to buy a wood kitchen cookstove.  I've seen lots of ideas on Youtube for outdoor cooking from small metal coffee cans to larger barrels.  As my mom used to say, everything old is new again!